The ambiguous nature of a Libra man sometimes makes it hard to tell what he is feeling. As sensitive as he is, he always has more than one thing going on in his mind.
It can be tempting to make a Libra man feel guilty for mistreating you when he has hurt you. But how will you know you have achieved your goal of making him feel guilty if he is not showing it openly?
There are surefire ways to make a Libra man feel guilty and regret hurting you.
Your best bet is to be straightforward and explain how he has hurt you. If you talk about it reasonably and don’t get too offensive, he will start to feel empathy for you. If things are still not working out and he doesn’t care about your feelings, it might be a good idea for you to take a break from this relationship.
The desire for justice is a part of human nature and our culture, so it can be very tempting to make someone realize that they have hurt your feelings. Making them feel guilty for their behavior is a way to keep them accountable.
Although ultimately, his feelings and realizations will only result from his moral compass, if you follow these eight tips, you will touch him in his most sensitive places and make him feel guilty for hurting you.
8 Tips To Make a Libra Man Feel Guilty
Before you invest your precious time trying to make someone guilty, it is always important to ask yourself if you want to continue being in a relationship with someone who is mistreating you and someone you want to punish with guilt.
If he doesn’t realize the value of having you in his life in the first place, maybe you need to think of moving on and being with someone who will see you for the amazing and irreplaceable person you are.
1. Think Things Through
Libra man is great at looking at things from different perspectives, and regardless of your zodiac sign, it can be beneficial to learn from him.
Before you feel bad about something he has done, think about what his motivations could have been and why did he do that? Did he mean to hurt you, or did he do it unconsciously?
Answering these questions will help you prepare for the further steps and help you develop a new perspective on the situation.
2. Be Straightforward
Libra man, just like most other zodiac signs, won’t be able to read your mind and understand the issue until you speak up about it. Wait for the best moment, ideally when it’s just the two of you, and don’t confront him unexpectedly, but tell him you would like to talk about something.
This way, you will allow him to open up and listen to you. Libra man is a good listener, so if you find the right moment and speak honestly, he will be able to hear you and empathize with you.
3. Talk About It
Libra is a rational being, and if you appeal to his logic, you have the biggest chance of getting him to understand what he has done wrong.
He naturally tends to consider situations from different perspectives, so if you help him by calmly explaining how you feel and what made you feel that way, he will understand you and feel guilty about his behavior.
4. Don’t Get Offensive
If you start attacking him by getting too heated and mentioning too many things he has done wrong, he will shut you out, and you won’t be able to get your point across.
Instead of feeling guilty, he will most likely want to get away from you. If he feels too overwhelmed by your negative emotions, it will scare him; he won’t become empathetic but instead will start to argue with you.
5. Don’t Be Too Dramatic
It can be tempting to express your feelings emotionally, and you have all right to feel that way. But if your main goal is getting the Libra man to hear you and feel guilty about his behavior, this might not be the best idea.
Libra man responds much better to reasoning and logic than he does to overwhelming emotions.
6. Take a Break
If you have talked to him and it still seems that he cannot understand your perspective, it might be a good idea to take a break, in every sense of the word.
Give him a few days to think about what you have said. Or possibly, you will need to take a break from your relationship altogether. This can give you time and space to think about your priorities. He will likely think things through, feel guilty, and realize he does not want to lose you.
7. Start a New Life
If he doesn’t show enough interest in your feelings and disregards your emotions, chances are this is not someone you want to be with. Breaking up can be a difficult decision, but it is better than staying with the wrong person.
If you are truly ready to take the leap and start a new life without him, and if you are not just doing it to hurt him, he will feel very guilty for hurting and losing you.
8. Live Your Best Life Without Him
If you have taken the brave step of breaking up with your Libra man, make sure you focus on your health, happiness, and well-being.
If he sees you are enjoying your life, instead of crying about him, he will regret losing you and very likely come back to you, apologizing for his mistakes.
It can be tempting to jump to conclusions and attack a Libra man when he has mistreated you. But it’s best to take a deep breath and think things through. Look at things from his perspective, and you will realize that it might not all be that bad.
However, if he disregards your feelings after you have an honest and open conversation with him, it might be a good idea for you to consider moving on. Life is very short, and you should always strive to be with someone who treats you right and appreciates you for the special person you are.