How To Make a Virgo Man Chase You (9 Simple Tricks)

How To Make A Virgo Man Chase You

Getting this earth sign to chase you isn’t a walk in the park. A Virgo man is organized, discreet, self-critical, reserved, sensitive, and intelligent.

Many people find Virgo men difficult to crack. This is because they’re slow to open up, and they like to remain private. And because of this, people get impatient with Virgo men.

A Virgo man, however, gets irritated by impatience and can’t stand it when people are trying to rush things with him.

So how do you get a Virgo man to chase you?

Give him time to open up, be punctual, pay attention to him, have intelligent conversations, take good care of yourself, ask for his advice and be honest with him. He will start chasing you in no time.

Continue reading as we tear apart all these qualities and more so you can get that Virgo man chasing you in no time.

How To Make a Virgo Man Chase You

How To Make A Virgo Man Chase You

Dating a Virgo man can be a truly wonderful experience. They are highly intelligent, loyal, and have an innate sense of integrity.

However, they tend to be very picky when it comes to relationships and may not always make the first move. If you want to make a Virgo man chase you, it is important to understand the unique characteristics and needs of this particular sign.

With patience and an understanding of his desires, you can make the Virgo man in your life pursue you with enthusiasm.

1. Be Patient

A Virgo man needs time to trust you and form a bond with you. If you don’t want a long-term relationship, a Virgo man isn’t right for you.

One of the things he looks for in a relationship is security. He wants to feel like you’ll always be there for him.  This is why a Virgo man takes his time when choosing a partner. As an earth sign, he wants a stable person.

So if you want him to chase you, you have to give him the time and space to trust you enough to open up to you. You can start by being his friend first, and then as he begins to trust you–trust me, you’ll know–you can take things to the next level. 

If you get impatient, you’ll only miss out on everything a Virgo man has to offer. He’s very methodical, so he lives his life in stages. Don’t jump any stage with him and just go along. It’ll be worth the wait when you crack him.

2. Be Punctual

If you’ve got a date with a Virgo man, you better set an alarm because these people don’t like to be stood up. To a Virgo man, punctuality is a sign of responsibility, so always show up on time.

Showing up on time tells him that you care, you’re reliable, and prepared. He’s analytical, so don’t think he won’t notice all these details.

3. Pay Attention

If you know your Virgo man’s likes and dislikes, you both would get along swimmingly. Again, he’ll think you care if you know his favorite movie or song. You don’t need to cram everything. Just really listen to him.

Listening attentively turns a Virgo man on. As a reserved person, he never gets attention, so being genuinely interested in what he has to say will make him long for you more.

4. Have Intelligent Conversations

A Virgo man loves a good debate. As an intellectual sign, he loves people that can match his intelligence and compete with him. Debate with him, but don’t argue. Remember, he’s sensitive, so he tends to shy away from strong emotions.

Speak logically with your Virgo man, and he won’t stop thinking about you. If you can get him to change his opinion on something, you’re on the right track.

Talk to him about your favorite book and why you like it so much. He’ll love to hear all about it, and he’ll even tell you his. Telling him all about your hobbies and interests will help you get to know some of his, and you’ll break down his walls brick by brick.

5. Be Hygienic

Although he finds intelligent women sexy, a Virgo man also has high regard for hygiene. Virgos are neat, tidy, and organized so if you don’t like cleaning your room, you may want to do that if a Virgo man is coming over.

Now, you don’t have to be a sucker for tidiness, just be clean. We all know what clean looks and smells like. Be comfortable in your clothes, and look your best.

6. Ask for His Advice

Virgo men love helping people and solving problems, so if you’re trying to decide the best dress to wear or the best career path to take, ask him.

As a logical thinker, he’ll help you consider the pros and cons of your decision. He also likes to feel like he’s being productive even in his free time so he’ll jump at any chance to help you with something.

When you constantly ask for his advice or opinion, you’re telling him that you trust him enough to help you make important decisions, and with time, he’ll start coming to you for help.

 7. Be Honest

Virgos should have a degree in reading people because they notice details you’ll be shocked to know. If you’re lying to a Virgo man or trying to cover something up, there’s a 90% chance he’ll find out.

So your best bet with a Virgo man is to come clean, no matter how painful the truth may be. If he feels you’re genuine, he’ll open up more and you both would establish a relationship on a strong foundation of mutual trust.

8. Be Humorous

Although he’s nervous and serious, deep down, he wants to be able to loosen up and throw caution to the wind sometimes. Help him escape by bringing humor to the relationship.

Be Flirty and playful with him, make him laugh out loud, and push him to try new things. If you help a Virgo man get out of his comfort zone and laugh more, he’ll chase you for sure.

9. Be Empathetic

Virgo men genuinely care about other people, even if they don’t show it. A Virgo man loves a woman who can put the needs of others before hers.

He’s watching how you treat other people, and that’s one of the most important determinants of whether he’ll be in a relationship with you.

In a restaurant, how do you treat the waiter? Little things like this help a Virgo man judge your character, so if you’re kind and empathetic to others, he’ll be heavily attracted to you.


The key to understanding a Virgo man is accepting that just because you’re open with your feelings and emotions doesn’t mean he’ll be open with his feelings. He has to trust you first.

If you are patient with him, honest, pay attention, and ask for his advice, he’ll want you more than anyone else.