It’s the age of technology, and for some, it can be hard to keep up with all the new dating apps. How does one even begin to know how to attract the right guy? Especially when you’re looking for something more than just a hookup.
The answer is: it’s all in your head.
Yes, you read that correctly. Your thoughts and your mindset are the keys to manifesting the guy you want to text you. Whether he is your boss, a colleague, or a guy you met at the bar, if you want him to text you, you have to think it into existence.
So, the question is, how to manifest a guy to text you?
Visualize your ideal guy whom you want to text you. Dismiss your current beliefs that are holding you back. Set an intention for him to text you, and be open to the possibilities. When you put yourself out there to find someone, the universe will answer. It’s all about your mindset and your approach.
Let’s break down some incredibly effective ways to help you give an understanding of manifesting a guy to text you.
1. Visualize the Type of Guy You Want To Text You
Well, this is the first and most important step towards your goal. You must be very clear about what kind of guy you want to text. This will help you set the right intention and attract the same type of energy.
Ask yourself some questions like:
- What does he look like?
- What is his profession?
- What are his interests?
- How does he treat you?
- What kind of energy does he emit?
- How does he make you feel?
The more clarity you have, the better your chances of attracting him.
2. Get Rid of Your Limiting Beliefs
Let me tell you a fun fact about our brain- it is very good at sabotaging our efforts. It does so by coming up with all sorts of negative thoughts and beliefs, which we then start to believe as truth.
And these beliefs further limit our ability to attract what we want in life.
You will face the following limiting beliefs:
- I am not good enough.
- I don’t deserve love/attention.
- I am not worthy of having what I want.
All these beliefs must go if you want to manifest the guy you want to text.
Come up with positive affirmations like:
- I am worthy of love and attention.
- I am lovable and deserving.
- I have excellent communication skills.
Repeat these affirmations to yourself every day, and soon you will start to believe them.
3. The Whisper Method
Really? Yes, it is as simple as it sounds.
Imagine your guy is walking with you along the street, and you start whispering sweet nothings in his ear. What would you say?
You can say, “Text me today, and I promise to make your day.” Or “I am thinking about you and want you to text me.“
This whispering will match your energy with his and create a powerful connection between you. The best part is that it can be done anytime, anywhere.
4. Set an Intention for Him To Text You
Something that will work like magic is setting an intention for him to text you.
It is essential that your intention is clear, concise, and in alignment with what you want.
But the question is, how do you set an intention?
It is simple. Get into a relaxed state, close your eyes, and take some deep breaths. And then, state your intention out loud or in your mind.
“I am worthy of love and attention. I am open and receptive to having the guy I want to text me. I am attractive and beautiful. I want him to get inside my head and my heart. I want him to know how I feel about him. I am ready for him to text me.”
5. Put Yourself in His Shoes
Have you made your move yet? If not, then it is high time you do.
You need to put yourself in his shoes and take the initiative. It does not matter if you get rejected; what matters is that you tried.
Take it this way. If you were he, would you text the girl who is waiting for you to make a move? What would you further need to see in her to make you want to text her?
Try to think about what he is thinking, feeling, and doing. Once you do that, it will be easier for you to take the next step.
6. Send a Text to Yourself
Looking silly? Maybe, but it works.
You need to send a text to yourself from your number. I think now it’s more than evident that we are trying to create a pattern here.
When you get a text from yourself, your brain will start to believe that someone is thinking about you and wants to text you.
It might sound absurd, but it has worked for many people, so why not give it a try?
Type the exact message you want him to text you and send it to yourself.
7. Write It Down and Put It Somewhere You’ll See It
It’s time to get old-school and take out a pen and paper.
Yes, you need to write it down. And no, you will not hide it away in some secret place. You need to put it somewhere you will see it daily, like in your bathroom mirror or next to your bed.
When you see it every day, it will keep your intention alive and serve as a reminder for you to take action.
To manifest a guy to text you, you must trust the law of attraction. Manifesting a text can take a few hours to a few weeks.
And don’t let timing play a spoilsport. Just because he hasn’t texted you yet, it doesn’t mean he never will.
Also, let the universe attract things that align with your energy. So, relax, be patient, and the law of attraction will do its magic.